a movie review? or is it just me?

it's really difficult for me to write a title for what i write. it's a tedious process of thinking that washes away my train of thoughts, so i'd rather start with what i want to talk about. :)

i just can't believe i am gonna write about another movie i've watched. i've read it somewhere, that the number of movies that a person has watched equates to the level of social life a person has, which when translated into and equation, it would be: more movies = less social life. maybe, this could be possibly true, but, i don't want to talk about my very low social life. i'd like to talk about the happiness and lessons i learn from the movies i watch. i'm gonna be blogging like a love sick puppy again, talking about looove. :) so bear with me. 

i know that i am already late and beyond deadline, but tonight is my first time to watch "Hitch" which showed five years ago, starring one of my favorite actors Will Smith. the movie is just really cunning and very witty, and not to mention, it has a great sense of humor and not the sleazy type of humor. why am i writing about this? it's because i... yeah, you knew it, I CAN RELATE. okay, i am not a cynic, i am admit that i am the most hopeless romantic person not in the entire universe but as far as i see myself compared to the people i know. let's cut the chase and get to the point. we all are scared to really FALL IN LOVE. 

it is everyone's concern to guard their fragile hearts. we've seen how complex it is to keep a relationship, and what more to start one. it all begins with all of those "firsts", then take it from there, your love story unfolds. BUT, the most difficult part is, to actually begin with that "first" step. it sure is easy to imagine walking up to the person you like and say, "hey! i like you", but when it's right there in your face, and the bait is dangled right infront of your eyes, your knees start to wobble and your picture perfect imagination shatters into pieces. IT IS HARD! so, we'd rather settle to look at the person we could possibly have a future with from afar, and watch him or her wasting her time with someone else who could've been you instead. seeking advices helps, even though that would sound a bit desperate, but as how it goes, "desperate times, need desperate measures". we all needed that one precious opportunity to take that shot, but at times, we just get sacred, we fear rejection or maybe we are not too confident enough. but, "there is no principle" on how to snatch that person of your dreams. we think that maybe those advices we hear, or tips we read would work, but the truth is, it is us who actually do the actual job. sure we did take heed of those advices, but it would still be up to us on how to carry out a spontaneous development. it's funny that we sometimes believe that those advices or tips helped get hooked up, but it's only a starting point, an acceleration, the rest of the ride, we are in control. if we try to get perfection, we lose ourselves, but if we try to simply try, we still get a hold of who we are, and in keeping our personalities intact, we get more comfortable with the person, and that our "little" imperfections are the things that spice up everything. those quirks or eccentricities that we have actually make us more attractive and real. just keep yourself together. :)

give your guards a day off. it's good to keep yourself guarded with all defenses up, but sometimes, we have to go out of that wall that keeps us from feeling what we want. from what we see, from what we hear, we have all the cynical reasons not to fall in love, cause in that way, things will be much easier. we are scared to admit how we feel when we've found the right person for us. scared because we might get rejected or maybe the timing isn't right, or maybe we made the wrong assumptions. so many thoughts, that make us fear, but if we don't admit it now, then when? when that person has slipped away? fall. fall freely as long as you know why you're falling so that when you reach the ground, you actually knew and felt what it was like, cause it's better that way than hitting the ground not knowing at all. 

what would be better than this for a first date? isn't it extreme and wet? :)

so are you gonna spend the rest of your life being miserable? it is really miserable to think that being miserable will make you happy. so, go and get "hitched". <----did i say it right? i made that one up. :))